A lot of people credit or blame God for the acts of mankind. I see it all the time, and frankly, I feel very sorry for God.
Why? Are they afraid to take responsibility for themselves and their actions?
A man is murdered: God didn't do it (or let it happen), a man did.
One survives a life experience, while the other doesn't: God doesn't save one and not the other; each makes a choice to survive or not.
By all means, pray, have faith, open your eyes to what God sends your way to help you, but please don't place the burdens on him.